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Total raised: £1,175.33

With Gift Aid: £1,379.08

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Latest Donations

16/03/2024

Sarbar, Mani n Bobs xxx

RIP lovely.. xxx
£5
16/03/2021

sarbar, bobs & mani

xxx
£25 + £6.25 gift aid
10/06/2018

Georgia Henderson
£30 + £7.50 gift aid
19/11/2017

Jane & Amelia Ivey

Thank you for inspiring Amelia in her drum lessons She looked up to you & admired you greatly When we hear Black Betty we'll think of you
£290.33
12/07/2017

Richard's memorial service

Part of the collection from Richard's memorial service on July 9th at St Barnabas Swanmore. The rest was a £50.00 sent direct to MIND.
£60 + £15.00 gift aid
12/07/2017

Solent Design Studio

Solent Design Studio, Durley, Southampton asked that the cost of providing the service sheet for Richard's memorial be given to MIND
£25
10/07/2017

Mike Salter
£250 + £62.50 gift aid
28/04/2017

Mum and Dad

So many happy and now sad memories of our dearest youngest son who left too soon because of his suffering. Your torment is now over RIP xxx
28/04/2017

June

In memory of dear Richard - in compassion with others who are troubled.
£25 + £6.25 gift aid
13/04/2017

Annie and David Wortley

Richard at 3 sweeping the road with our carpet sweeper "'cos it's dirty".A lovable lad gone much too soon. Our thoughts are with his family.
£20
12/04/2017

Lizzy Bennett

Climbing trees, paddling in rivers, mischief and so many giggles. 'Grace' before tea and your drumming talent. Cherished moments & memoriesx
£50 + £12.50 gift aid
12/04/2017

Sylvia

Richard you were part of the Parker/Pavey family just like another son. You are loved and will be missed but forever part of our lives.
£20 + £5.00 gift aid
12/04/2017

Kate Parker

Happy memories of growing up with you Richard, a beautiful person inside and out. You will be sadly missed but always in our hearts friend x
£100 + £25.00 gift aid
11/04/2017

Gael, Tony, Thomas & Mark

This is the hardest message to write. Our hearts go out to all how loved Richard. May this help others to know they are loved too.
£100 + £25.00 gift aid
11/04/2017

Sallie & Ross

This won't allow me to post my memory, it says it's too long. Instead I will just say you'll be forever in our hearts & thoughts
£100 + £25.00 gift aid
11/04/2017

James

I hope this donation will mean that other family's will not suffer the cruel loss of a much loved brother, son and devoted father
£20
30/03/2017

Sara, Bobs and Mani xx

It will be a good day when mental illness is as comfortable and easy being talked about as any other illness..

Richard Pavey

My favourite memory

Our favourite memory of Richard was in the mountains boarding, biking or enjoying a beer.

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Do not think of Richard and weep
He is still around, he will never sleep.
He is flying kites in winds that blow,
He is boarding in fresh fallen snow,
Always drumming along with style,
He is joking around and cracking a smile.
He is playing with drones or a toy plane,
He is riding his bike downhill in rain.
He is with his sheep, bees, fish or car.
He is in the garden he is never far.
Think of him when you look to the sky
Like a twinkling star, he sparkles up high.
Until the time we next all meet
Pop it and lock it and ride away sweet xxx

We lost Richard in March 2017 after a long battle with mental illness, we starterd this page to help encourage people to remember.. its good to talk !